Don't trust someone who can not dare to see you in your eyes.

Sometimes, people get together for understanding each other, while they part with each other mainly for further understanding. Though the result is disgusting, it's a reasonable and inevitable ending.

We need something comforting. To some acquaintances of us, We will start to respect them or more if we hear their private stories of noble spirit. And then possibly we will show positive response and lean closely from heart to them. However, some time later, we disappointingly and slowly find out the background for believing them is precarious. We start to suspect. We suspect of the stories we have been told and compare them to what we have seen and heard about them. Finally and shockingly, we realize more and more clearly that we have been "comforted or even pleased" by some well compiled fake stories, and for which we even disclosed many of our own experiences not safe to tell others.

What will we do for the relationship built-up? In my mind, to any rational and upright people with no deep personal involvement with such a liar, it's right to abandon the superficially pleasing past with him. We can not trust someone who cheated us with good sounding scam from scatch. Otherwise, we are to risk our basic principle and (further) private secrecy. After going through such cases, our heart may become a little bit hardened. The vualuable experience we can and should learn is to be prudent at someone with noble stories and show your respect after you make sure the stories are true. Cheers to those realizing the fact to be cheated and pity for those losing their own "true stories and private views". Alas.